When do you know when
to get married?
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I have got no answers.
I am asking it!
Every time I attend a wedding (dinner, or church, or kenduri) I never fail to ask
myself quietly in my heart... when do I know when I am ready to get married? But before I
can truly search my heart for an answer, usually someone will say "Hey Julia meet so
and so..." whom you suspect probably doesn't have a girlfriend yet. People tend to
try to matchmake during weddings... I am not sure why myself. Then again that is another
question in itself - Why do people like to matchmake during weddings?
Anyway, back to the earlier question - when do you really know when to get married? When
your instincts to procreate gets so strong and you cannot resist those instinctual effects
anymore? When you have dated 'x' amount of times, seen 'x' amount of movies
together and he has bought you 'x' amount of gifts? Is there such a formula?
Hmmm... I wonder if it is a secret weds to-be keep - a little angel will whisper to you
when you are ready and you swear not to tell to those not married yet.
Why don't I ask those who are already married? Well, I hate the "You will know when
the day comes" answer. Which is why I think, may be it's the promise they gave the
angel. 
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