wedding

Getting married at the right time.
Is there a right time?

Many of us will at some time or another be questioned by either a friend or relative (especially during weddings and festivals) on when we will get married. Especially if you are about the 'right' age to get married (although we really don't know what is the right age to get married! Is there a book out there that can give us the answer?). There must be good reason why the elders want us to get married early. The most common reason being the fact that you don't want your kids to be still very young when you are about to retire. But by far, the most irritating sort of pressure to get married is not from the elders. We heard that it is actually from friends whom by the fact that they have just recently got married promoted themselves into 'elder' status. And by this fact 'granted' themselves the right to pressure you into getting married.

Well, for those of you out there who are enjoying single hood and checking out our site please go ahead and enjoy yourselves. It's your life and you shouldn't feel pressured in any way (though we need to qualify by saying the elders may sometimes have their point).